In our Courageous Bible study two questions are posed that strike a few nerve cords:
What kind of commitment to Christ do your children see in you?
What kind of sacrifices are you making to help your family obey God?
The first one really hit home with me, because I notice my children watching me constantly. From word choices to habits I have seen the echoes of my actions displayed in the daily activities of my children. I don't think we consider often enough how our children see our behaviors. If I tell my children to read their Bible and pray before bed they will be watching to see if I do it.
I heard a story the other day of a man who is wealthier than most. He leads one of the largest companies in his industry and could easily never go to work again and still make millions. However, he can be seen every work day performing the jobs that the lowest paid workers in his company do. Why? He has a passion for great results and cares about both the quality of his company's work and the people doing the jobs. Because of this "lead by example" kind of mentality, I'm sure he has some of the most dedicated employees of any company. People desire to follow leaders who "walk the walk".
Are you practicing the same things you tell your children NOT to do? If something is not good for them to do or watch, what makes it acceptable for you? Embrace the courage to step forward today and become a leader!
WELL SPOKEN MY FRIEND
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